Monday, 2 December 2019

some people were meant to be permanent and some people were meant to be temporary.



You need to accept this fact because it is a fact. It is reality. Though not everyone in your life will be temporary. Some may stay with you a life time. If everything in this world is temporary, what is life worth living for? Soul-based relationships are a lot more complex, nuanced, and multi-layered than that. We don't meet people by accident. They are meant to cross our path for a reason.
The charge that we sense when we encounter these people is a sign that we have a soul agreement with them.You’re being drawn to a certain person for a reason and purpose, and it’s essential to notice the signs. The most common misconception is that soul connections are only romantic in nature.
These relationships are rare and hard to come by, but you can increase your chances of having more positive and enriching soul connections in your life by going where they are. Spend more time in places, organizations, and institutions where you will find people with similar values, interests, and philosophies. If you’re an artist at heart, go to artistic events such as exhibitions and galleries. If you’re someone who loves sports, go to more sporting events and health clubs.
While seeking out your kindred spirits, keep these four signs in mind while looking for those true soul connections:
1. They change you (and your life) on a profound level: As you interact with a soul connection, you’ll gradually sense that there’s something about you that will never be the same. You can feel a significant shift in your inner landscape which often reflects in your outer circumstances. The energy exchange that you have with a soul connection, be it professionally, socially, or romantically, reconfigures the existing coordinates which you’ve known. They might do this consciously or unconsciously, directly or subtly, through their actions, words, or just their presence. The nature of these ‘soul-appointments’ could vary from the person that you end up marrying and having children with, to a passing encounter with someone you meet at a seminar or a conference who offered you some life-changing advice.
2. They make you aware of the things you love (or hate) about yourself: The individuals with whom you have a soul connection will always mirror back your own qualities. In her book, Eat Pray Love, writer Elizabeth Gilbert writes, “a true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you.” That’s why it’s so easy to get triggered by their actions and words because they can make you aware of the shadow traits within yourself, something you may not like to be reminded of. If you could manage your emotions, you can tap into the revelations that you have from these encounters to grow, and heal. On the other hand, if you admire certain things about them, you can pat yourself on the back because you most definitely have those qualities, or it’s something you’re aspiring to.
3. You feel connected to them on an energetic level: The bond that you share with a soul connection feels exceptionally strong. Even if they are not around in your surroundings, you often think about them and wonder how they are doing. No matter what you do, you can’t eliminate the energetic ties that link the two of you on the cosmic plane. It’s not uncommon for soul connected individuals to have a telepathic connection, even at a distance. By staying connected to them, you stay in touch with the energies that they infuse into your life and the lessons that they teach.
4. You know that you won’t forget them: We meet so many people over the course of our lifetimes. Memories will fade over time, but soul connections cannot be easily forgotten. The imprints that they leave on your soul cannot be erased. While growing up, my father would often tell us stories about the man who gave him his first break when he was in his 20’s, even though there were other candidates better qualified than him. His boss-to-be could see my father’s potential and willingly took him under his wing, teaching him the ropes of the banking industry. My dad, now in his mid-70’s, still remembers this man with affection, gratitude, and deep respect.
When it comes to soul connections there are no limits – age, nationality, culture, race, profession, and status are simply irrelevant because these connections pierce through the facade of our constructed identity. By expanding your awareness, and opening yourself up to these destined connections, you have the opportunity to experience the true nature of universal love, and reach a state of wholeness and wisdom.
But certainly, when it comes to intimate relationships, hope for long term but be prepared for short-term.