Success vs Failure

Success vs Failure

Happiness and success. Everyone wants it, right? Whatever you do in life, there is a final result for it. Success or Failure! "Success" is a word that differs from person to person, just the same as the word "failure" does. For Success you should have the Power of Taking Risks, Making Mistakes and Thinking Big. When you do something, you have an intention of achieving, completing or changing a thing. The Real-Life forms of those expectations are called Success. And when things opposite or unexpected happen, that’s a fail and it becomes what we call — A Failure! Failure and defeat are life’s greatest teachers. 

According to experts, the success and happiness industry (via books, workshops, lectures, programs, etc.) has a ninety-seven percent failure rate going back seventy-five years, and the latest research from Harvard and Stanford shows us why.

Research indicates that about ninety-nine percent of people are living their lives with failure turned on. So basically, no matter how hard they try, failure and unhappiness are inevitable – at least compared to what is possible for that person. Doctors and scientists have known about this mechanism for years. And there’s no question about what it does. Even the CDC acknowledges that the failure response in our brains is responsible for over ninety percent of all illnesses. So why have you not heard about this already? Because no one has found a reliable way to flip the switch from failure to success, on demand.

Each of us has a success/failure mechanism in our brains

                                                                                                                                         

The Success Response

•  ·         Enhances relationships                                     
• ·         Increases trust and wise judgement
• ·         Increases parental bonding                            
• ·         modulates appetite, healthy digestion, and metabolism
• ·         Results in love, joy and peace                       
• ·         Promotes healing
• ·         Increases immune function                            
• ·         Stimulates relaxation
• ·         Reduces stress                                                     
• ·         Stimulates nonstress energy
• ·         Lowers blood pressure                                     
• ·         Stimulates higher neurological acitivity
• ·         Counteracts addiction and withdrawal      
• ·         Opens cells to healing and regeneration

                                                   

The Failure Response

• ·         Dumbs us down                                              
• ·         closes our cells
• ·         Makes us sick                                                   
• ·         destroys relationships
• ·         Drains our energy                                           
• ·         Causes fear, anger, depression, confusion, shame and  worth and identity issues
• ·         Suppresses our immune system              
• ·         Causes us to do everything we do from a negative perspective, even if we paint on a happy face.
• ·         Increases our pain                                          
• ·         Raises our blood pressure

Do you want to know which is turned on for you, right now? It only takes about sixty seconds to find out.

1) What do you want more right now more than anything else?

2) If you got what you most wanted, what would that do for you and what would it change in your 

    life?

3) If you got the things that were your answers to both questions 1 and 2, how would you feel?

Your answer to question 3 is actually the right answer to question 1. That’s what you really want more than anything, and it is always an inward state; it is never an external material circumstance.

How to create a mindset for success?

• ·         Create A Vision
• ·         Be clear about what you want
• ·         Cultivate A Positive Attitude
• ·         Seek out Inspiring People
• ·         Create A Success Mindset With A Mentor

These are the things you seriously want to avoid if you need to be a successful person.

• ·         Laziness.
• ·         Distractions.
• ·         Thinking that you’ll do things later.
• ·         Being depressed on Negative Criticism.
• ·         Copying the Experts.
• ·         And finally, giving up!

Difference between Teaching and Learning

Teaching involves imparting knowledge whereas learning involves acquiring knowledge.

Schools teach knowledge, but life requires wisdom.

Unfortunately India's education system does not focus on the student's overall personality development but the grade.

School doesn't test your intelligence, it tests your memory only.

By the time students arrive in Grade 10, they have all but lost their curiosity.

If the country wants to improve the educational system, they should provide more programs and workshops that can help build a well-balanced individual.

The system of education in India should first focus on teaching in understandable language, I mean use the mother tongue and move on to English upon higher education.

The educational institutions in the country should focus more on providing technical skills development.

Teaching life skills in schools as important as arithmetic and reading.